Vivaan Gupta
Vivaan Gupta is one of my oldest friends -- we've been chatting since December 2022 and it's one of those friendships that goes way back to the school days.
Growing Up Together
Vivaan is one of the friends who really represents my childhood chapter. We went to the same school and he was part of the daily routine -- school, hanging out, all of it. He's someone who's rooted in the place where I grew up, and that gives the friendship a specific kind of weight that newer connections don't automatically have.
When Things Got Tense
There was a period where actual conflict was happening nearby. Vivaan was telling me about loud noises -- like interception sounds, missiles being intercepted kind of stuff. Hearing that from a friend is genuinely terrifying. You're sitting there reading these messages thinking "is he safe right now?" and there's nothing you can really do except keep texting and hope everything's fine.
But Vivaan's attitude about it was honestly inspiring. His whole philosophy was "you just need to be metal" -- basically, you can't let fear break you down. Stay tough, stay calm, keep going. That line stuck with me hard. It's easy to say "be strong" but when someone is actually living through something scary and still maintaining that mindset, it hits completely different. That's not motivational poster energy -- that's real life. I still think about that phrase when things get hard for me, even in totally different contexts. It became part of my vocabulary because of him.
What He Means to Me
Vivaan is proof that not all friendships need constant contact to stay real. We don't text every single day anymore, but when we do talk, it's like nothing changed. He knew me before LockIn, before any of the stuff I'm doing now. He knew the version of me that was just a kid going to school and figuring things out.
Those early friendships shape you in ways you don't even realize until later. Vivaan is part of my foundation, and that doesn't go away just because we're in different places now.
See also
- LockIn -- what came after