Nysa
One of my close friends. We've been talking since December 2022 across multiple chats. Also the founding member of the iconic "nysaissuchagirlboss" group chat, which honestly tells you everything about her energy.
How We Met
Same school, same hallways, same "ARE YOU COMING SCHOOL TOM" energy. December 2022 means Nysa is one of the earliest friendships in my chat history -- we've been talking for over three years now. She was part of the fabric of my life growing up, not just a name in a contact list.
The Academic Beast
Nysa is actually insane academically. She got 100/100 in English Language in the ICSE BOARD EXAMINATION. ONE HUNDRED OUT OF ONE HUNDRED. In the boards. That's not just smart, that's a different level entirely. The ICSE boards are no joke and she absolutely destroyed them. It's inspiring honestly -- being friends with someone who's that locked in academically while also being one of the warmest people you'll ever meet.
The Love
Nysa is pure love. There's no other way to describe it. The "MISS YOU" texts, the "LUV YOU" texts, the "THANK YOU SHAURYAYAYAYA" messages -- she makes you feel appreciated in a way that's so genuine it almost catches you off guard. In a world where everyone's being ironic and detached, Nysa is openly, loudly, unapologetically caring. And that's rare.
She has this way of making you feel like you actually matter in her life. It's not just generic kindness -- it's specific, personal, and relentless. She remembers things, she follows up, she celebrates your wins like they're hers.
The Girlboss Energy
The nysaissuchagirlboss group chat is exactly as chaotic and wonderful as the name suggests. It's its own little ecosystem of hype, love, and the kind of friendship that runs on "LUV YOU" energy. Nysa earned that group name. She IS such a girlboss.
What Nysa Means to Me
Some friendships are loud and constant. Others are quieter but no less real. Nysa falls somewhere in between -- we have our bursts of "MISS YOU" and "LUV YOU" and then we have the stretches where life takes over. But the foundation is always there. The Google Meet calls when we can't hang out in person, the birthday messages that are way too sweet, the genuine warmth that radiates from every single message.
Every conversation with Nysa feels like warmth, and honestly if she sent me one more "LUV YOU" right now, that would be perfect.